Hypnotic Seduction Tips

Know The No’s

There are plenty of situations that qualify as “just don’t do it” situations. By knowing what you should not be doing, you’ll be well on your way to empowering yourself farther without taking steps backward.

Here are some don’ts to know about:

• Don’t be too macho or too arrogant. Don’t assume that you have the right to touch her if she doesn’t enjoy it.
• Don’t touch her in any way that is provocative. If you touch her chest, your backside or her leg, you aren’t talking about getting to know her. You are talking about wanting to do more with her. That’s a definite drawback for most girls.
• Don’t call her too often. Once you get her phone number, you don’t want to make yourself look desperate by calling her several times. Call her once, leave her a message. If she doesn’t call you back, call her one more time and invite her to call you for dinner next weekend.
• Don’t over do it in the friend department. As we revealed, this is not where you want to be.
• Don’t say anything that could be insulting to her. You don’t want to say anything negative about her to anyone especially when you are talking to those that know her.
• Don’t lie or make yourself look like more than you are. Even if the agree to see you, once they learn that you aren’t who you say you are, they’ll walk away. They will do this because you lied to them, not because you don’t have what they want. 99 percent of girls are interested in guys that are like them.
• Don’t talk about other girls, ever. Just don’t. And, don’t let her see you looking at another girl across the room. This is an instant way to lose her once and for all.

There seems to be many things that you shouldn’t do. The fact is that you can rule all of these out when you simply act like yourself and be respectful of the girl that you are interested in getting to know. That’s all it takes to flirt with a girl!

When Time Is ShortThe perfect girl just walked into the bar you are at. You want to flirt with her to get to know her better. How in the world will you do that when you don’t have time to get to know her first?

Don’t worry; in situations like this, flirting can still be done. Here are some tips to make that happen.

• Make eye contact with her from across the room. Here, you establish that you are there and that she sees you. She also knows you are interested. Hold her eyes until she pulls away.
• For those a bit more confident, they can have the bartender ask her if she would like a drink on you. She may decline, which may mean she’s not interested. If she accepts, make sure to nod her way as if to say “you’re welcome.”
• Walk close to her. Brush against her with your arm, just lightly without doing anything that would upset her.
• Sit next to her at the bar. Start a conversation with the bartender that may interest her too. Perhaps talk about what’s playing on the radio or what’s going on with the news report on the television.
• Smile at her. A woman loves a man that smiles at her. He’s happy, he’s got that twinkle in his eye, and he’s interested in her. Those are enough factors to keep her interested in you.

Although you may not realize it, most women will enjoy this type of interaction even if they have never seen you at all. No matter what situation you are in, these simple things can do wonders to help a girl to know that you are there and that you would like to get to know her.

For some men, it is easier to meet girls in this manner, where they can simply decline a drink and there’s no sham in the process. Yet, it is still important to flirt with her and to develop an opportunity in which you can get to know her a bit better.

In situations where you do have time to meet her, such as situations where you will see her over and over again, many men take for granted that their time to develop a relationship with a woman is unlimited. That’s not the case.

You should only flirt in the long term model we’ve revealed over a span of a couple of weeks or meetings. Anything more than that and she’ll think that you simply want to be a nice guy to her.

Learning to flirt is a must for any guy. When you can flirt, you can draw her in to knowing you.