Lazy Seduction

Practice Your Skill
Although it is hard to get your foot in the door and get started with asking girls out and even just talking to them, it’s the best way for you to actually improve your skill.

Practice makes perfect which also means that the first few times that you talk to a girl, you are likely to fall flat on your face. That’s a learning experience and each time will get easier.
You should talk to several women, not the same one over and over again.

If you wanted to learn how to ski, you would have to get out there on the slopes several times. The same methodology is effective here. Practice!

Realize You Are Worth It

Far too many men don’t realize that they are a good choice for a woman. Give yourself credit, you are worth dating! If you are someone that’s too hard on them, you’re letting yourself down in the end. Instead, what you need is to be positive and motivated.

If you aren’t sure what makes you a good mate, its time to define that. List all of your good points. Keep in mind how important it is for you to realize that women should be flocking to you. In fact, once you learn why you are so valuable to women, they will be even more attracted to you because of this increased confidence. A man that is confident in what they can offer to a woman is one that will attract them.

Look Under Her Skin

Are you a man that gets a little shaky when he sees a beautiful woman? You think to yourself that she’s too good for you. No way will a woman like that be with you. This is one of the largest mistakes a man can make. A 10 on the attractive scale is only skin deep. The fact is that you really don’t know what her flaws are.

As a man, you need to realize that even the most beautiful of women have flaws and other drawbacks that may even keep you away from them.

Therefore, don’t put so much pressure on yourself. She has flaws, too. Allow yourself to rest assured that she’s not perfect as you are not. You do deserve to talk with this woman just like any other. That’s your goal: treat them no different than the average looking woman.

Date Multiple Women

Once you get married or find that great girl that you really enjoy spending time with, that’s when you can begin to worry about dating just one girl at a time.

While that may shock some of you, the reason for this is simple. A man gains confidence when he realizes that he has more than one girl to be with.

Here’s the situation. If you meet Jane and think she’s okay, what happens when you no longer find her interesting? You may even stay with her because you would rather not be alone.
One the other hand, if you meet Jane, Annie, and Jessica, if you get to the point of being bored with Jane, you are more likely to let her go because you still have Annie and Jessica to call. What’s more, you are also gaining quite a bit of confidence knowing that there’s someone else out there that’s interested in you, too.

Keep It Going

Let’s say that you find a bit of confidence and start talking to several women. You are just
approaching them and asking if they would like a drink. It’s worked for you as you have talked to several girls and gotten their phone numbers.

When something starts to work for you, whatever that is keeps it going. Make sure to keep up the good things that are you doing. Perhaps it is just the location that’s working for you. Maybe you are meeting people at a new club because of the unique atmosphere. Keep it up.
What’s working for you is worth keeping up as long as it doesn’t become tired and boring for you.

In the process, you will also gain confidence because you are seeing results. The most important consideration here is the fact that you are gaining confidence in such a way that it is allowing you to try new things, too.

Keep up what you are doing and add in something new to test the waters as you go.